Sex in the City - Where's My Valentine?

All the single ladies put your hands up! Valentines Day is yet again approaching and like myself and many of my beautiful, intelligent girl friends - We have yet to find a Valentine. We shall walk past Clinton Cards and the like with the same sense of  dismay and want. Dismayed that we have yet to find an eligible bachelor and wanting an eligible bachelor to share our time with. We ask ourselves, where have all the good men gone? Don't get me wrong, we all get approached by men but not the right man. Some of us ladies have even succumb to researching ways to improve our understanding of men and most importantly our understanding of ourselves.

A book of great reference for my friends and I, which might I suggest you buy as a present for yourself this Valentines Day is Steve Harvey's 'Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man. Now, my friends and I have read and referred to said book as if it were a text book for a bachelor's degree in attracting a good man, and have attempted, with generally much success, to implement certain suggestions into our courting and more significantly, being courted by men.

In Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man Mr. Harvey discusses the three month abstinence rule - that of abstaining from full sexual relations with any man that you are dating for three whole months, if you wish for him to remain as a permanent feature in your life as your man and partner. Now, as extreme as this might

sound it will distinguish the 'Sports Fishers' from the 'Keepers'. Meaning, you will soon discover who is simply 'fishing' for many different women and who is actually looking for a 'keeper' to keep and hold onto in the long run. Once you have mastered 'Act Like A Lady Think Like |A Man, you might wish to progress to the follow up title, 'Straight Talk, No Chaser: How to Find, Keep and Understand a Man', also by Steve Harvey.

Here's hoping that with these two books in your possession by the time Valentine's day 2012 comes around, you will most likely have a 'Keeper' who is willing to or has already -  put a ring on it!

Get your Steve Harvey Valentines gifts by clicking the links below:

 http://www.amazon.com/Act-Like-Lady-Think-Relationships/dp/0061728977/ref=bxgy_cc_b_img_b

http://www.amazon.com/Straight-Talk-No-Chaser-Understand/dp/0061728993